Bucket List Ideas for Couples: 60 Things to Do Together

Most couples have a list, even if it's never been written down. The trip you keep mentioning. The thing you said you'd try "one day". The city one of you grew up in that the other has never seen.

Writing it down changes something. "One day" turns into a plan. Here are 60 bucket list ideas for couples, from big trips to small evenings, so you can pick the ones that fit the two of you.

My partner and I had "visit each other's hometown" on our own list. I grew up in Utrecht, she was born in Lugano, and we go back there with her family and friends about four times a year. Seeing where someone comes from feels like getting to know a new side of them, or finally understanding things you already knew about them.

Travel bucket list ideas for couples

1. Take a trip with no plan beyond the first night.

2. Take a night train somewhere and wake up in another country.

3. Go back to the place you went on your first trip together.

4. Visit a city neither of you has been to, so you discover it at the same time.

5. Do a road trip and let the passenger choose every turn for one afternoon.

6. See the northern lights.

7. Swim in a sea you've never swum in.

8. Spend a night somewhere with no phone signal.

9. Learn ten words of the language before you land, and use all ten.

10. Take a cooking class abroad and make the dish again at home.

11. Watch a sunrise from somewhere high.

12. Stay somewhere long enough to have a favourite café.

The places that made you

For a lot of couples, the most meaningful trips aren't the famous ones. They're the ones back to where each of you comes from.

13. Visit the town where your partner grew up, and let them give you the tour.

14. Find their old school, their first job, the bench they used to sit on.

15. Eat the dish they always say isn't the same anywhere else, in the place it comes from.

16. Meet the friends who knew them before you did.

17. Go back to the street where you first lived together.

18. Take one photo in each place that matters to your story, from the same spot, every few years.

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Small adventures close to home

19. Be tourists in your own city for a day.

20. Go to a concert by a band neither of you knows.

21. Pick a random stop on the train line and explore it.

22. Sleep outside, even if it's in the garden.

23. Take a class together where you're both beginners.

24. Do a full day of only yes.

25. Watch every film by one director, in order.

26. Cook a three-course dinner from a country you've never visited.

27. Go to a market early and cook only what you find.

28. Find the best view in your city and take a picnic there.

29. Volunteer together for a day.

30. Go to the cinema for a film you know nothing about.

Things to make or build together

31. Plant something and keep it alive for a year.

32. Make a photo book of one year together.

33. Build a piece of furniture without arguing. Or with arguing.

34. Write a letter to open on your tenth anniversary.

35. Learn to dance one song properly.

36. Start a shared playlist and add one song every week for a year.

37. Make a map of every place you've been together.

38. Learn each other's family recipe.

Bucket list ideas for long-distance couples

Living apart doesn't pause the list. Some of it is easier from two places.

39. Send each other a photo of your sunset every evening for a week. Same sky, hours apart.

40. Read the same book and talk about one chapter a week.

41. Send each other a real letter, by post, once a month.

42. Give each other a video tour of your neighbourhood.

43. Cook the same recipe on a call and compare results.

44. Plan, in detail, the first trip you'll take once you live in the same place.

45. Spend one visit doing absolutely nothing special.

46. Be there for one big moment in person, however hard it is to arrange.

For more ideas you can do from two places, see our long-distance relationship activities and date ideas.

Big milestones

47. Live in another country together, even for a few months.

48. Celebrate an anniversary somewhere that matters to both of you.

49. Learn the other's first language well enough to talk to their grandparents.

50. Spend a holiday season with each of your families.

51. Take a trip with your parents, or theirs.

52. Throw a dinner for everyone who helped you get here.

Small ones that still count

53. Have breakfast in bed on a Tuesday.

54. Get caught in the rain on purpose.

55. Leave a note somewhere they'll find it months later.

56. Stay up all night talking.

57. Take a photo together every year in the same spot.

58. Go a whole weekend without plans.

59. Say yes to the thing the other one has wanted to do for years.

60. Write your own list of 60, and start again.

How to make your own couples bucket list

Each write ten things on your own first, without looking at the other list. Then compare. The overlaps go straight on the shared list. The rest is where it gets interesting.

Mix sizes. A list with only big trips gets done once every few years. A list with small things gets done every month, and that's the one that feels alive.

Put a date on one item. Just one. A list with a date on it stops being a wish.

And keep it somewhere you'll both see it. A shared note, the fridge, the first page of a notebook.

Celebrating something soon? See our anniversary ideas for long-distance couples, or if you've just moved in together, our housewarming gifts for a couple moving in together.

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FAQ

What should be on a couples bucket list?
A mix of sizes: one or two big trips, some small adventures close to home, a few things to make together, and the places that matter to each of you, like the town where your partner grew up.

How many things should be on a bucket list for couples?
There's no right number. Twenty to sixty is easy to keep track of. What matters more is that some items are small enough to do this month.

What are good travel bucket list ideas for couples?
A night train to another country, a trip with no plan beyond the first night, a city neither of you knows, and a visit to the place where each of you grew up.

Can long-distance couples have a bucket list?
Yes. Some ideas work from two places, like reading the same book or cooking the same recipe on a call. Others are for the next visit, or for when you finally live in the same city.

How do we make a bucket list together?
Each write ten ideas separately, then compare. Start with the overlaps, mix big and small, and put a date on at least one item.